Abstinence is the magic word! We reveal how you can heat up your love life with a sex break!
Especially in a long-term relationship, a certain rut can creep in at some point: sex usually takes place regularly and routinely – erotic thrills and excited excitement? In this situation, many resort to sexual experimentation: from sex practices like pegging to all kinds of sex toys and role- or partner-swapping, the realm of sexual fantasy offers quite a few things that can be tested out. But what if you’re not the experimental type or have already tried everything obvious?
This is where the sex break comes in! Paradoxically, you can give your love life a whole new freshness by rigorously putting it on hold for the time being. Doesn’t sound that exciting at first? But it is! And we reveal how it works!
How to turn a sex break into the ultimate love booster!
In order for a sex break to really have an effect on your love life, you should consider the following:
Length of the break
Whether a week or a month: How long you want to play the game with the hot sex break is up to you. But in the time you set, abstinence should be strictly adhered to!
Rules: Everything is allowed – except for an orgasm.
Again, it should be strictly specified what is allowed and what is not. Physical abstinence is not the same as abstinence in the head: On the contrary! In the sex break the fantasy and a special sexual tension should be stimulated! Basically everything is allowed, except actual sex – that means also hot solo games are on the forbidden list during the sex break. Permitted and expressly desired, however, is the heating up of any kind: Everything that increases the desire and stimulates the imagination may be driven far – just not to the extreme…
Heating up the break
Sexting, provocative clothing, stimulating touches (for example, everywhere except in certain zones) … Everything that stimulates without directly leading to an orgasm is allowed! Here you should determine individually what is ok and what pushes the game too far. Ultimately, the goal is not only to become more and more aroused during the sex break, but also to become more creative and give your fantasy more room, instead of simply aiming for a climax quickly.
Here’s what abstinence does to your sex life
Taking a sex break isn’t just about simply not having sex for a while. The most important thing about the whole thing is that it builds up sexual tension in a very specific way and stimulates the imagination in a special way! Get creative and heat each other up during abstinence – the incredible sex at the end of the break will be worth any effort, because it will be much more intense than the routine sex before abstinence. The reason for this is not the enormously increased sexual tension, but also that lovemaking and every touch can be experienced in a whole new way after a period of abstinence and appreciated many times more.