From kissing to cuddling to cunnilingus: This is what women really want during sex!
his text is not intended to lay down rules. It is meant to make you want to do it. Much more desire. For kissing, cuddling, caressing and sex that really leaves us breathless. Not everything applies to every woman, but many things apply to many women … Here’s what many women want during sex.
Men, take heart – with these tips you will give us – and you – the best sex of our lives!
Dear men, here’s what women want during sex!
- Start tenderly. Women need some time to warm up. But don’t worry, it’s actually not that hard. Caress us, on the arms, on the neck, along the collarbones.
- Kiss us. A lot. Many men forget about kissing when things get stormy. That’s a terrible shame, because kissing is what first brings that special intimacy that many women want during sex.
- Look us in the eye. We need to know that you mean exactly us when you’re really hot. A deep look tells us: yes, I want exactly you and it is important to me that you feel good.
- Touch our breasts. Whether with the fingers or the tongue, these two beauties absolutely want to be caressed. Take your time for it, even if you think it’s a bit long now that you’re stroking around there – that’s exactly when we often enjoy it the most. By the way, it’s also nice if you just let your hands lie quietly on one breast. The warmth and skin contact alone make us women happy and ready for more.
- Surprise us. Always just bed is so boring. Fall all over us in unfamiliar places. Even if it feels embarrassing at first to fuck in the hallway, us bent forward over a dresser, you behind us – it will be really fun for both of us and unforgettable.
- Don’t reel off a program. Just because something worked for your ex doesn’t mean it will work the same for us. Be attentive and pay attention to our moans, our breathing, the movements of our hips … they will tell you if we like what you are doing.
- Indulge us with your tongue. You love blowjobs, most women love it just as much when you spoil them intimately. Many men shy away from it, but honestly, sex is give and take. If you don’t know what to do, here’s a guide for absolute beginners: first, gently stroke with your fingers, rubbing everywhere, not just on the clitoris. Then blow gently, spread light kisses. When we are aroused, moan, hold our hips out to you, then start sucking, on the lips, on the clitoris, play with your tongue, kiss along our thighs, penetrate us with your fingers…. Of course, everything carefully. But dare! You will be rewarded with an incredibly hot woman who really wants to have a lot of sex with you really fast!
- Touches our clitoris during sex. There are many positions where our clitoris is barely touched. This makes it much harder for us to get aroused. Make the effort, caress us there while you take us. We will be very, very grateful….
- Make your bed! Nothing turns us off more than an unmade smelly bed where, at worst, we still feel crumbs in our backs when you lay us.
- Take care of yourselves. Shave. Use deodorant and perfume. Cut your nails and wash your hands before touching our most intimate parts. We go to great lengths for you, too. And the chances of a blowjob increase if your best part smells good.
- Don’t make us beg for contraception. Ask for it on your own. Don’t count on us to take the pill. There are also diseases and a good man is only one who takes responsibility and provides. Condoms do not cost the world.
- You want sex toys? Then get some. Far too many men rely on their wives ordering massage oil and vibrators. Why don’t you do it yourself and surprise us? Thank you. Our favorite: The Satisfyer Pro 2 – cheap and just soo good!
- Praise our body. Tell us how beautiful you think our face, our breasts, our legs, our feet, our belly or, or, or! Most women struggle with insecurities about their bodies. Only when they feel accepted by you, they can really relax.
- Wait to have your orgasm until we’ve had ours. Please, at least try. Far too many women remain unsatisfied after their man has come really fast – and then lie unhappy next to their snoring partner. Such women don’t stay with you. They really don’t. It’s way too frustrating for that.